Last night, engaging in a text message conversation, laying on my couch in stillness mistaken for true inner peace. Today, floundering at my desk, wondering when the streak of misfortune will end. Today, sitting at the cafe, having lunch, messily eating my baguette, unable to focus on my newly bought Entrepreneur magazine. Last night, sleeping [...]

3 years spent in the making and incubating, my essay The Self Sexual is now published on Blogcritics.
It's still surreal seeing my work edited and published on the Internet. And my editor Jon Sobel has given me good feedback for my last two essays.
I now have 2 streams running in the realm of sexuality: a [...]

On Saturday night, I went to watch Footloose at the Nelson Mandel Theatre at the Civic Convention Centre in downtown Jozi. It was well-acted, very energetic, and entertaining. I found myself laughing out loud at the brash innuendo and well-time jokes. The girls were hot. The guys were on point. The accents were often off, [...]

I think it's a justified notice to make that over the next couple of weeks, you will start to be introduced and read at length the words complicated and relationship in my posts. And these won't be about women. These posts will be about the various complicated relationships I have with different aspects of my [...]

This past week has been a first step in very gentle and undramatic renewal. I've seen progress, hope, and possibility in myself to manage priorities, stick to a tasklist, and to write.
I would like to introduce you to two wives I'm married to unhappily at present. Yes, I am married. And polygamous. My two wives [...]

Way back last year, I announced here that I had been accepted as a columnist on this small e-zine. It seems like I never announced when my first column actually went live. So, here it is.
And now, as of today really, my 2nd essay on the Internet (slightly edited, so to read original post, check [...]

I'm now a member of Blogcritics, a collective of bloggers writing reviews of DVDs, music, arts, events, books, CDs, and the usual stuff of bloggers: well, you know, blogs. I know. I'm the real Beautiful Mind.
It will hopefully bring more exposure to this blog and this one. I'm still undecided on whether I want the [...]

Call me Midiane.
I had met her through mutual friends about a year ago. An attractive British girl with a sense of humour that I missed here in South Africa, we had hit it off and kept in regular touch. Soon, she was a part of my daily IM marathon conversations during work. And she [...]